I recently met an old friend from school – she was the girl that had it all. Be it for good grades, perfect hair, the most stylish outfits… I was in awe of her to say the least. Not only was she impeccably perfect in everything, she was genuinely nice too!! I was awestruck. Followed by a mild depression that no matter how much I tried I will never be that girl.
This time, a good ten years later, I bumped into her on one of my travels. She looked even more beautiful (if that were even possible) and she had an adorable child at her hip with the perfect outfit and bow on her head (but of course). The mother was effortless in style, a natural mother, perfect paying job, and I was sure of it a gorgeous home that had décor straight from an Architectural Digest magazine.
But then, in conversation I recalled all those things about her that were forever overshadowed by all that I mentioned above. She came from a broken home, finance was always a problem and she was and still is the caretaker of everyone. Her personal life and emotional wars are no minor feat that she deals with everyday.
Her good heart is responsible for that beautiful glow (and of course her eye for style and most likely for great sales)! Always smiling, she takes each day with grace and a positive outlook.
But in all this, I learnt a lesson – not everyone who looks so well put together really is. We all have our own stories, obstacles and baggage. Nobody has it all. It is up to us to make the most of what we do have.
I feel lucky to be where I am and who I am today. I thank God for my wonderful life, good health and an amazing family who are always there for each other.
So, back to Kitchen Therapy – this is my go-to comfort dish after meeting someone who has it all, and you’re wallowing in depression – roasted garlic and truffle macaroni and cheese. I suggest you don’t even try to count the calories here and understand that this is THE dish you need to soothe your mild jealousy, or admittance that those last 10 pounds just wont budge, or even worse, no matter how bad your boss is, you cannot quit.
This is the reality of our lives. But a little butter, cheese and truffle oil can brighten up at least an hour of your day. This dish I can assure, although sans spice, but oozing with the richness of the butter, cheese and roasted garlic envelopes you with every bit of comfort.